Bride must wear a white wedding dress...today it is perfectly fine (fun and unique) to wear something with a little color. Blush, mint, and even black! (yes, I said it) Black dresses can help showcase a brides unique style on the couples big day! It may not be for everyone but if you find yourself stuck while looking for the perfect white gown, let your hair down, relax and let go! Find a dress in your favorite color and express yourself!
Bridesmaid to Groomsmen ratio must be equal...great for pictures, yes, but does it always make sense for the bride and groom? NO. Do what feels right. Select people who you want by your side for the right reasons, not to fill in spaces.
Formal attire is a must...It's fun to play dress up every now and then but if you're both feeling like you want that special day to be a bit more casual, there's nothing wrong with that! It should be all about sharing your love with each other and your guests. And it most certainly doesn't have to be runway show if you don't want it to be.
Formal dinning style is also a must... Again if elegance is what you're after, passed heavy hors d'oeuvres, or chef attended stations are good ways to get your guests to mix and mingle, and can also lead to a more exciting party, while maintaining a posh and elegant style!